Wholeness

It's not about being happy 24/7... we are entitled to be in "pursuit of happiness" (based on our Dec of Ind) but in no means is it a guarantee.

There are going to be days maybe even seasons of uncomfortableness, discontent or sadness.
I'm coming to terms with it that these periods are ok. Sometimes all you can mutter is "I'm ok", sometimes you just cry and sometimes you help yourself to more than 2 cups of tea.
In these times it is when you as an individual can grow; only when you can decide to say, "I've had enough" and pick yourself up. Don't dwell there long but just enough ...
take steps like reminding yourself to be thankful, find the "little things" that make you smile, and get off your lazy bum to  be productive.

Wholeness is finding the balance.
There's good and there's bad- that's life. The important thing is to always remember Goodness wins. There's loneliness and there's company. The important thing is to not neglect either. There is right timing... sometimes solitude is better to learn about yourself and enjoy being single before caring for another and learning about another soul.
There's happiness, sadness and then there's peace and anger- don't let either latter get the best of you.
xoo, S
double hugs because somedays we just need hugs